8 things that you should not see at Russian girl

8 things that you should not see at Russian girl

Tattoo and body piercing Russian girl

Initially, the tattoo is a way of identification. Tattoo warriors of a tribe different from other tattoos. Later, tattooing has become a sign of the clan, membership of a particular social group. Pirates and robbers, soldiers and sailors, intelligence agencies and assassins - bearers of tattoos surrounded by a halo of romance, danger and mystery. Gradually, tattooing has become fashionable element appearance. There was an opinion that the tattoo is a good thing, it is original and stylish.
But the real Russian de vushki should know about tattoos and does not consider himself the best way to allocate. As for the piercing at the Russian girl, is there any need of a beautiful woman making a hole in his body and hang the extra decorations? Excess decoration is vulgar, and even more vulgar decorate the places that are not designed for this purpose.

Unnatural hair color and colored strands

True Russian girl, there is no need to attract attention with bright red hair. The simplicity and naturalness - that its main strength. If the natural hair color is not too interesting or appeared early gray hair, ladies choose shade of paint for the hair, the most similar to the natural hair color of a Russian girl. Noble silk thick healthy hair will not leave anyone indifferent man.

Massive earrings

These earrings have always been part of the dress of Roma, sailors and Cossacks. True Russian girl does not need a false romance of these professions, so why Russian beauty to adorn herself with her earrings, which is associated with eternal vagrants? Emphasize pink pearl elegant abalone can best earrings made from freshwater pearls.

Intemperance in alcohol consumption. Drunk Russian girl.

Maybe there are girls who like Bat drunk, silly giggle and hung on all men within reach. But the real Russian woman always remembers how it looks from the outside. Well educated Russian woman will never allow himself to attract attention to his person in this way. And who might like a drunken Russian woman who is interested in a drunken Russian bride or wife drunk Russian?

A loud shrill voice and abuse

This lady did not raise his voice, even in moments of greatest tension feelings. The ability to control your emotions at all times was a sign of a real Russian beauty. She knows how unpleasant to the ear a sharp female voice. And to spoil his reputation, saying mat ...

Specially emphasized erotic clothing Russian women

True eroticism in Russian girls are always accidental. The greatest delight is accidentally lifted the hem of her dress or skirt, strap later. But to wear trousers with low waist to them from under the gum panties peeking at the Russian girl, or a black bra under a white chiffon blouse real lady never will. Girls in such clothes are forced to keep on his face stern and unapproachable expression, not to be mistaken for ladies of a certain profession.

Silicone breasts or lips Russian girl

The artificial mouth or the implanted breast look good from a distance. In the end, this invention Hollywood. Actresses have to create a certain image, erotic appearance, so as not to lose the love of the crowd. But the real Russian woman is able to win the true love without resorting to a new chest fourth the size.

Unnatural eyebrow line

Eyebrows plucked a thread, or drawn with a pencil, suggests that their hostess is not okay with the psyche. Would a normal person to pull out the hair on the body, and then to draw them again? A real lady is no need to draw attention to your face in such a barbaric way. If it corrects the shape of their eyebrows, then make them as close to natural.

11 Critical Questions about russian Dating. Answered

11 Critical Questions about russian Dating. Answered

I have been in contact with few russian women and I have few questions.  I met this ladies on onlinedating websites, I notice most of them are 19 to 33 years old and…

Question # 1
When they send me e-mails they all use the word Dear, is that normal? Usually dear is for the first e-mails you send, or mostly older people use it, or, it is used when you send a letter to a company or something. Is this usual for Ukrainians/Russians?

Answer # 1
English language for Russian and Ukrainian women is a foreign language, they do not know all niceties of the English language. Do not evaluate the English language not used by native speakers very critically.

Question # 2
They talk about being poor and about there is hunger and no jobs or jobs pay little salaries, but they dress in expensive looking clothes. Does this make sense to you?

Answer # 2
Russian and Ukrainian women are renowned for their beauty. Russians and Ukrainians live according to the following proverb: Good clothes open all doors but clothes don’t make the man. As you possibly know, Russian and Ukrainian women pay great attention to their appearance.

Question # 3
Some say they don’t have a cell phone with camera or don’t have a cell phone or computer because they had to sell it to buy food. Some say they have only 2 places with internet because of the war and it’s too expensive to use it. Truth or Lie?

Answer # 3
Well, this does not sound really credible and trustworthy for me. You wrote that women between 19 and 33 years old get in touch with you. As I know from my experience, almost every young person in Ukraine and Russia has a smartphone.


A standard Internet package in Ukraine costs about $5 monthly. Secondly, the war is in Eastern Ukraine (Lugansk and Donetsk), not in the Central, Southern or Western Ukraine. People in Kiev, Lviv or Kharkov can manage to pay for using Internet at their home.

Question # 4
Some send 1-2 photos wearing a swimsuit (bikini). Is this normal for Ukrainians and Russians? Are they lying or are they desperate to find a man?

Answer # 4
Russian and Ukrainian women who are successful in life will never publish photos in a bikini or lingerie on the internet. The society in Ukraine and Russia is pretty traditional and it is considered unethical for women to present themselves in this way online.

Question # 5
In each mail they send at least 2 pictures. Is this normal?

Answer # 5
Why not? As for me, sending a few pictures is not bad and you can get known a woman better.

Question # 6
Some say “Tell me everything about you” “Tell me your hobbies”. I wonder if some are sincere or if they just want the info to use to scam other people. What do you think?

Answer # 6
It is very common to ask questions in online dating messages. This is a way to get to know each other better, to get an idea if you have anything in common. How are you going to find out if this woman is a potential match for you or not if you do not exchange any information about your goals, hobbies, friends, family, career, and life expectations.

The aim of online dating is basically to get to know enough about your match to encourage you that they’re genuine and interested to see if they’re someone you’d like to know better. What you communicate about your life, expectations and experience can be rather enlightening about you as a person.

Of course, online communication is not a one-way street. If you see that the woman does not reply your questions back, you should be careful with your information. You should also ask the woman some questions about herself because it helps you check whether or not she is genuine.

Question # 7
Most of them say they live with their mother, some say their family moved with their grandmother (all have said, women only, most say their father died or abandoned them). In the pictures I have seen only women and little girls who, they are supposed to be their niece. Many say they moved to a farm or far from the city. What is your opinion?

Answer # 7
It is difficult to give you an exact reply on this question. Each family story is different and it may be that most of women still live with their family. But the statement “Many say they moved to a farm or far from the city” sounds a little bit strange. How many exactly say that? As I know, young people move to bigger cities because in the villages there are no job opportunities.

Question # 8
They usually reply 2 days after. Some say they only have internet at work. Is it true or they are planning how to reply?

Answer # 8
There are no particular rules about how often you should communicate when dating online. In my opinion, there is no right and wrong here, neither inappropriate nor dishonest. Some people prefer to hear from potential matches at least daily, some people say it is sufficient for them to respond the messages just 2-3 times a week.


The variables on this issue are massive. Nobody can say what the right number is or isn’t. Remember, we all are different (that’s why the dating world is so interesting). Each dating and relationship story is diverse, too. If the woman responds you every 2nd day, it is not bad, in my view.

Question # 9
When they send me an e-mail, I asked them their profile number and the name of the dating site… Some say, Oh I deleted it because men harassed me, other can’t say that information and they avoid the question. Very few respond to that.

Answer # 9
How have you basically approached by these women? If you are registered on a dating site, you should have an overview of the profiles on it. Have you received emails with the women’s contact suggestion? In the “newsletter” case, I would not start any communication with women because, as for me, this way is not reliable.


It seems to me that dating services you have used or tried do not sound really trustworthy. How do you communicate with women if they deleted their profile on a dating site? Which communication sources do you use? Have you searched on the Internet and seen what other people say about these dating services and what experiences they have gathered with its service?

Question # 10
Most of them talk to you very affectionate even if they don’t remember your profile. How is that??

Answer # 10
It is a red sign that these women might be scammers. If the woman uses flowery language in her messages and lots of descriptive words like you are so attractive, you are my dream man or you look like a perfect man, it is more than suspicious. If you have this in your online communication, I recommend you to stop all communication directly.


This online love is like a wonderful fairy tale. Online communication and romantic letters are not the same as offline dating. So if your woman tells you that she is love with you, I would be cautious about this because the woman could be very different in person.

Question # 11
Some give their cell phone number, some deny having one, I made a call once and she said she couldn’t answer the phone because she was at the gym. No money for food but she can afford the gym?

Answer # 11
It is a red sign that these women might be scammers. If the woman uses flowery language in her messages and lots of descriptive words like you are so attractive, you are my dream man or you look like a perfect man, it is more than suspicious. If you have this in your online communication, I recommend you to stop all communication directly.

This online love is like a wonderful fairy tale. Online communication and romantic letters are not the same as offline dating. So if your woman tells you that she is love with you, I would be cautious about this because the woman could be very different in person.

Some final words. I would recommend you, first of all, to use reliable dating services

Five reasons Western men should look for a Russian & Ukrainian woman

Dear friends,

Here are the top five reasons why western men should look for Russian and Ukrainian women for marriage.

Reason #1. Adventure

Traveling to foreign lands and meeting the beautiful women who live there is exciting. Western men will get a chance to spend time in new cultures and travel to the home of the ladies they date. During their visits, they can attend events where there are literally hundreds of exotic beauties. All of these women are there to meet the man of their dreams.

Reason #2. Financial security

It costs quite a bit of money for Western men to be able to attract and win over a Russian or Ukrainian lady. Flying back and forth is just one of the expenses that will be encountered. Most experts recommend that at least $10,000 is available to fund flying, lodging and spending time overseas.

I wrote an article about the possible costs of Ukrainian online dating:
“A comprehensive cost analysis of Ukrainian and Russian mail order brides”

Reason #3. You love difference

It is exciting to meet hot women from other cultures. Getting to know them and learning the cultural influences that affect their outlook on the world makes the relationship incredibly interesting. All of these activities are only available to western men who are willing to spend time to meet women from Russia and Ukraine. Men can learn new languages and are sure to enjoy the different culture.

Reason #4. Expanding horizons

Most cities have a limited supply of eligible women. Lots of men are successful on the local dating scene, but sometimes there is not enough stimulation. Ensuring that plenty of new and exciting women are met every day is one of the benefits that western men will derive from dating Russian and Ukrainian ladies. There are plenty of sites that make it easy to Skype and chat on the Internet, and men are sure to enjoy meeting new ladies every night.

Reason #5. You have a sense of adventure and are addicted to the idea of a Russian or Ukrainian bride

You have listened to the Internet and need to see for yourself if what they say about these ladies is true. It is, and you can experience first-hand the power and seduction that these exotic ladies offer. The hype is true. There is only one way to find out for sure, and that is to step in and try it out.

Dear readers, why are you looking for Ukrainian women? I would appreciate your feedback!

Three tips how to overcome language barriers in a Ukrainian-Western relationship

Dear friends,

Today, we continue to talk about language, rather we will discuss the possibility of overcoming language barriers in a Ukrainian-Western relationship. I think this important issue cannot be ignored by the partners because an open communication and understanding are keys to a happy intercultural relationship. Since the modern world is more like a ‘Melting Pot’, intercultural relationships have become normal than exceptions. As the concept of global village is taking over, cultural, lingual and behavioral differences amongst people are blurring away gradually.

You can always fall in love with a Ukrainian woman who understands you as a person and shares a lot of similarities with you; her complexion or language might not matter when love creeps in! However the Ukrainian-Western relationships come with unique challenge that is precisely ‘Language Barrier‘.

There is a common concept – ‘Men and women speak different languages altogether!‘ Now it becomes a crude realty when you try to date a woman coming from Ukraine and speaking a different language. Following are a few general tips on communicating with a Ukrainian woman (that means someone from another language background):

Tip #1: You can use facial or hand gestures to make your lady from Ukraine understand you. Electronic translator devices are also available nowadays which will instantly translate your language to hers. However a machine can always translate the words but not the emotions.

Tip #2: Search over the Internet and find out about Ukrainian culture and background (e.g. the Ukrainian Dating Blog and Ukrainian Dating Stories). Learn and memorize some important phrases in her language and use them appropriately. Certainly she will be touched with your sincerity and effort.

Tip #3: You can always use an interpreter although it sounds a real turn-off to me! Seeking help from a third person can be really dissuading especially for a lady.

Now the solution to this problem greatly depends on what you expect from the relationship or how serious you are about it. Even if you get an electronic translator or learn a few basic phrases of Ukrainian or Russian, it is simply not enough if you wish to go for a long term relationship. There will be miscommunication and misunderstanding always until and unless either of you learns to speak each other’s language.

Although learning a new language is always tough, things get easier with patience and hard work; especially when you learn it from a loved one. Spend some time communicating with your partner in her language and ask her the meanings for certain phrases she uses in her conversation with you or others. Make a note of the meaning and try to use them while speaking with her.

Even if you do not become a great speaker of the foreign language, you can at least understand what she is talking about. Finally love has a common language spoken through eyes and body language. Till the time you find a feasible resolution to the language problems, try the language of love and you won’t regret it…Trust me!!

What do Western men want in a Ukrainian or Russian wife?

Dear friends,

Every year thousands of Western men marry Russian and Ukrainian women. What does a Western man look for in a potential Russian and Ukrainian bride? A recent survey and focus group was conducted by experts who talked to men and asked them what they want in a bride (for more information click here). Here is some information about the top three traits that Russian and Ukrainian women need to have to marry themselves a Western husband.

The first trait is that they have to be loyal.

One-quarter of the Western men who were surveyed listed this as their most desired quality in a woman from Russia or Ukraine. Men do not want a wife that they do not feel that they can trust. Loyalty is important because men have to be able to trust their wives with their lives, money, home and in some instances their children.

If a Russian / Ukrainian woman cannot be trusted because she acts secretively or flirts with other men then the relationship probably will not be successful. Men want to feel secure in their relationships so they have to trust their wife completely to have a solid relationship.

Some women from Russia or Ukraine have been known to use men so that they can network and find someone else who has more money to spend on them. Men do not want to be taken advantage of and used by women; they want someone who they can rely on through thick and thin.

The second trait is being in love with them.

15% of men stated that they wanted their bride to have genuine feelings of love for them. Love is important because without it people tend to seek affection from other sources such as online or extra marital relationships. Some Russian / Ukrainian women want to get married for financial security alone but this tends to create

The third trait which 10% of men are looking for is honesty.

In today’s day and age, it can be hard to believe everything that you hear. When choosing a wife, men want a Russian/Ukrainian woman who is honest. Some are and tell men only what they want to hear which can evolve into a very toxic relationship. Honesty is the best policy so potential wives need to show that they are honest.

There was also a focus group done asking men what they wish for in a Russian or Ukraine wife. 49% of Western men looking for a woman from Russia or Ukraine stated that they wanted an honest woman, 42% said they wanted a woman with a nice appearance and 34% of men said that loyalty and faithfulness were qualities they preferred in a spouse.

The men were given a list of fifty qualities to choose from for their answers for the survey which is most likely why physical appearance was not on the list of top three desired traits in the survey.

Some people think that Western men only want to marry Russian and Ukrainian women because of their looks but this is not true at all. The men primarily focused on requesting character traits over physical appearance which shows that they want to have a long-term relationship that will thrive.

Most men will have children with the women that they marry so choosing the right mate is crucial to raising children that are happy and well-adjusted. When Ukrainian and Russian women and Western men visit International dating sites they should take this information to heart so that they can find a spouse that is right for them.

Marriages take a lot of hard work and dedication so finding Ukrainian and Russian ladies with these three traits can help men build long-lasting marriages and families.

Would you date yourself? Reciprocal traits in a Russian or Ukrainian bride

Dear friends,

Everyone has a checklist of traits and qualifications that they keep in mind when looking for a significant other. When you’re dating, you may realize that the other party may reveal a portion of themselves that puts a kibosh on any potential; something that person said, did, or thinks just didn’t sync up with how you see a partner.

However, it’s important that you look inward from time to time and consider whether or not that you may need to work on the very things you are critical of others about; in essence, would you date yourself?

My best advice in moving forward begins with coming up with a list of qualities you consider valuable for a partner to possess that you may also need to work upon internally.

Below are ten such qualities. Factors that you may expect from a romantic prospect that you may need to work upon with yourself. This list is put forth with no particular order in mind.

#1: Professional Reputation.

Not many people are interested in someone that works a job over a career. While the economy can be crushing, having a legitimate career that you take pride in, complete with a salary and benefits conveys stability and confidence.

#2: Forthrightness. While it can sometimes be a difficult course to follow, honesty is almost always appreciated.

#3: Civility.

This goes hand in hand with showing maturity in one’s dealings. A genteel persona is appealing and preferable to that of a rude one.

#4: Wholesomeness.

While everyone goes for a “bad boy” or “bad girl” at one point or another in their dating lives, such relationships are ultimately short-sighted and fleeting. The individuals that convey an edifying aura of virtue and propriety are the ones whom are destined for dedicated relationships.

#5: Approachability.

People will always prefer someone with a balanced, pragmatic attitude over someone known to have an erratic or high maintenance attitude.

#6: Organization.

No one likes a long circuitous route when going upon the trip of explaining yourself in any capacity. If you’ve got baggage from previous relationships, you should be direct and inform the potential interest. If you have any legal issues that could snarl your way of life, inform the potential interest. Ultimately, this point of advice boils down to making sure that you are in control of your own life.

#7: Ambitions.

This goes beyond the above point regarding professional reputation, although it coexists with that point, you should always be striving to improve your standing in life and have plans, rather than concepts and outlines, to execute those plans successfully.

#8: Loyalty.

When you have someone that works for you, there is little reason to try juggling that person among other potential candidates. Disloyalty can quickly lead to all sorts of negative influences in your life and can even result in damaging your standing among some of these other tips, such as being honest.

#9: Don’t Treat Romance as a Numbers Game.

Firstly, ignoring this advice flows greatly against the current of wholesomeness and perverts the idea of having ambition. The old adage about a broken clock being right twice a day does not hold as much weight within the realm of dating. Overconfidence in courting can lead to an unsavory reputation that will gain more traction than your number ever could.

#10: Maturity.

Very few people are interested in dealing with a childish adult. Carry yourself with sophistication and a level head.

Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When they Date Ukrainian Women

It is no secret that Ukrainian women are incredibly beautiful. However, being beautiful is not the only thing at which those ladies excel. I have been to Ukraine twice and every time I have been there, I didn’t want to leave the country.

The fact that the women are extremely gorgeous is not the only thing that makes them so special. They combine beauty with intelligence and the perfect portion of traditional family values. Dating a Ukrainian woman is truly an amazing experience and every man who hasn’t been to this wonderful country in Eastern Europe should book a flight within the next days.

Dating those ladies will make your heart thump but if you think that all you have to do in order to cast a spell over those women is to behave the same way you would behave in your home country, you are doomed to have one bad date after another.

For me it was anything but easy when I traveled to Kiev the first time and even the second time when I went to Zaporizhia I made a ton of mistakes during my dates. I did everything wrong that you could do wrong but after I gained some dating experience in this country, my dates started to become better.

In the following lines I want to share the top ten mistakes with you that I made and that a lot of guys still make when they start to date Ukrainian women. I am sure that if you put the advice of this article into practice, your next date with a Ukrainian lady will be the best date you ever had.

(1.) You Show No Interest in the Culture

The number one mistake that I saw a lot of guys make when they were dating Ukraine women is that they didn’t show any interest in the culture of the girl they spent their time with. An American guy who wanted to date Ukraine women even told me that he couldn’t show me Ukraine on a map.

Of course a woman isn’t impressed with you if you can’t even find her country on a map. In case you are interested in dating women from other cultures, no matter if they are from Ukraine or any other country in the world, you should at least show some interested in their cultural background.

You don’t have to be fluent in the language but knowing a few facts about the history shows her that you are not just another ignorant foreigner.

(2.) You Fall in Love with a Picture

Are you registered on an online dating site to meet Ukrainian women? That’s great. Online dating offers the best opportunity to get in contact with women from this country, without spending hundreds of dollars on a flight every week

However, don’t make the mistake and rely completely on e-mails and don’t make the mistake to fall in love with a picture, without even meeting the woman who is on the picture. A picture doesn’t reveal her personality, her values and her beliefs.

If you are serious about finding a Ukrainian girlfriend or wife, there is no way around meeting her in person.

(3.) You Try to Impress Them with Money

Who hasn’t heard about the stereotype that all Ukrainian women are gold diggers? I think this stereotype not only causes a big fear in men, but it also motivates them to act in a way that scares all the good women away.

There are some women who want a man with money but those women exist in every country and like in every country, they only make a small portion. Most women you will meet in the Ukraine have enough money to make a living and don’t need any financial benefits from you.

Unfortunately, the belief that all Ukrainian women want your money motivates a lot of men to impress them with their money. Of course this whole thing backfires. The only thing you do with this behavior is to attract the gold diggers and to scare away the girls who are perfect for you and who don’t want your money.

(4.) You Make Rash Decisions

Love is an amazing feeling and if you haven’t been in love for a while I can totally understand that you want to experience this feeling as fast as you can. This need can easily lead to the illusion that you are in love with a girl, even though you just met her yesterday.

The beauty, the charm and the feminine attitude of Ukrainian women make it extremely easy for a man to fall in love with them. Nevertheless, you shouldn’t make any rash decisions that you might regret after a month or a year.

(5.) You Search a Housewife Instead of Love

Another big mistake that men make is that they want to date Ukrainian women for the wrong reason. If you are looking for your soulmate and if your goal is to find the love of your life in the Ukraine, you should definitely go there.

If you, however, want to find someone who cooks for you and who does the housework, you shouldn’t travel to the Ukraine. Those women want to find a man who wants a relationship with them because he loves them and not because he needs someone who runs the house.

(6.) You Want to Appear Superior

I have seen it in Thailand, I have seen it in Romania and I have seen it in the Ukraine. There are always a small percentage of guys who only want to date women from those countries because it gives them the feeling that they are the superior hero who rescues the poor girl.

Sorry, but this has nothing to do with love and affection. If feeling superior is your only motivation to date Ukrainian women, you should stay out of the country. Ukrainian women don’t need and don’t want to be rescued.

(7.) You Get Paranoid Because of Scammers

What is the first reaction that a man gets when he tells his friends that he registered a profile on a Ukrainian online dating site? His friends will most likely warn him that there are a lot of scammers out there. Then he will type “Ukraine dating scams” into Google and the more he reads about this topic the more paranoid he will get.

Please don’t get overly confused about dating a scammer and don’t make the mistake to assume that every girl who shows interest in you wants to scam you. I don’t deny the fact that there are indeed a few scammers on online dating sites but the amount of women who don’t even think about scamming you prevails.

(8.) You Take Her for Granted

Of course you should never take your girlfriend for granted, no matter where she comes from. Unfortunately, some men make the mistake that they take their Ukrainian girlfriend for granted because they assume that she won’t leave him anyway.

This false assumption comes from the misbelief that all Ukrainian women are happy once they meet a foreigner and won’t ever leave him, no matter what he does. In case you are one of the guys who take his Ukraine girlfriend or wife for granted, you don’t have to wonder when she leaves you faster than you expected.

(9.) You Put Her on a Pedestal

Another mistake that men make when they are dating Ukrainian women is that they put them on a pedestal. This is the complete opposite of taking her for granted but that doesn’t mean that it is more beneficial to your dating life.

Women love compliments and they also appreciate it when a man shows their affection but the last thing that a woman wants is a man who lives only for her. Especially Ukrainian women want men who are emotionally strong and who have a vision in life. Unless you have another purpose in your life than your girlfriend, she won’t be your girlfriend for too long.

(10.) Avoiding to Fall in Love

There are many beautiful women in Ukraine and even though this is amazing, it can also be very dangerous. I have met one man who told me that he found his dream girl in the Ukraine and that he still managed to mess the relationship up by trying to date other girls.

The biggest mistake you can make is to think that you can find an even prettier girl around the corner, even though you already found a woman you are in love with. Don’t risk the love of your life because you are scared that you are missing out on something.

Written by Sebastian, the owner of globalseducer.com and dating coach