8 things that you should not see at Russian girl

8 things that you should not see at Russian girl

Tattoo and body piercing Russian girl

Initially, the tattoo is a way of identification. Tattoo warriors of a tribe different from other tattoos. Later, tattooing has become a sign of the clan, membership of a particular social group. Pirates and robbers, soldiers and sailors, intelligence agencies and assassins - bearers of tattoos surrounded by a halo of romance, danger and mystery. Gradually, tattooing has become fashionable element appearance. There was an opinion that the tattoo is a good thing, it is original and stylish.
But the real Russian de vushki should know about tattoos and does not consider himself the best way to allocate. As for the piercing at the Russian girl, is there any need of a beautiful woman making a hole in his body and hang the extra decorations? Excess decoration is vulgar, and even more vulgar decorate the places that are not designed for this purpose.

Unnatural hair color and colored strands

True Russian girl, there is no need to attract attention with bright red hair. The simplicity and naturalness - that its main strength. If the natural hair color is not too interesting or appeared early gray hair, ladies choose shade of paint for the hair, the most similar to the natural hair color of a Russian girl. Noble silk thick healthy hair will not leave anyone indifferent man.

Massive earrings

These earrings have always been part of the dress of Roma, sailors and Cossacks. True Russian girl does not need a false romance of these professions, so why Russian beauty to adorn herself with her earrings, which is associated with eternal vagrants? Emphasize pink pearl elegant abalone can best earrings made from freshwater pearls.

Intemperance in alcohol consumption. Drunk Russian girl.

Maybe there are girls who like Bat drunk, silly giggle and hung on all men within reach. But the real Russian woman always remembers how it looks from the outside. Well educated Russian woman will never allow himself to attract attention to his person in this way. And who might like a drunken Russian woman who is interested in a drunken Russian bride or wife drunk Russian?

A loud shrill voice and abuse

This lady did not raise his voice, even in moments of greatest tension feelings. The ability to control your emotions at all times was a sign of a real Russian beauty. She knows how unpleasant to the ear a sharp female voice. And to spoil his reputation, saying mat ...

Specially emphasized erotic clothing Russian women

True eroticism in Russian girls are always accidental. The greatest delight is accidentally lifted the hem of her dress or skirt, strap later. But to wear trousers with low waist to them from under the gum panties peeking at the Russian girl, or a black bra under a white chiffon blouse real lady never will. Girls in such clothes are forced to keep on his face stern and unapproachable expression, not to be mistaken for ladies of a certain profession.

Silicone breasts or lips Russian girl

The artificial mouth or the implanted breast look good from a distance. In the end, this invention Hollywood. Actresses have to create a certain image, erotic appearance, so as not to lose the love of the crowd. But the real Russian woman is able to win the true love without resorting to a new chest fourth the size.

Unnatural eyebrow line

Eyebrows plucked a thread, or drawn with a pencil, suggests that their hostess is not okay with the psyche. Would a normal person to pull out the hair on the body, and then to draw them again? A real lady is no need to draw attention to your face in such a barbaric way. If it corrects the shape of their eyebrows, then make them as close to natural.

11 Critical Questions about russian Dating. Answered

11 Critical Questions about russian Dating. Answered

I have been in contact with few russian women and I have few questions.  I met this ladies on onlinedating websites, I notice most of them are 19 to 33 years old and…

Question # 1
When they send me e-mails they all use the word Dear, is that normal? Usually dear is for the first e-mails you send, or mostly older people use it, or, it is used when you send a letter to a company or something. Is this usual for Ukrainians/Russians?

Answer # 1
English language for Russian and Ukrainian women is a foreign language, they do not know all niceties of the English language. Do not evaluate the English language not used by native speakers very critically.

Question # 2
They talk about being poor and about there is hunger and no jobs or jobs pay little salaries, but they dress in expensive looking clothes. Does this make sense to you?

Answer # 2
Russian and Ukrainian women are renowned for their beauty. Russians and Ukrainians live according to the following proverb: Good clothes open all doors but clothes don’t make the man. As you possibly know, Russian and Ukrainian women pay great attention to their appearance.

Question # 3
Some say they don’t have a cell phone with camera or don’t have a cell phone or computer because they had to sell it to buy food. Some say they have only 2 places with internet because of the war and it’s too expensive to use it. Truth or Lie?

Answer # 3
Well, this does not sound really credible and trustworthy for me. You wrote that women between 19 and 33 years old get in touch with you. As I know from my experience, almost every young person in Ukraine and Russia has a smartphone.


A standard Internet package in Ukraine costs about $5 monthly. Secondly, the war is in Eastern Ukraine (Lugansk and Donetsk), not in the Central, Southern or Western Ukraine. People in Kiev, Lviv or Kharkov can manage to pay for using Internet at their home.

Question # 4
Some send 1-2 photos wearing a swimsuit (bikini). Is this normal for Ukrainians and Russians? Are they lying or are they desperate to find a man?

Answer # 4
Russian and Ukrainian women who are successful in life will never publish photos in a bikini or lingerie on the internet. The society in Ukraine and Russia is pretty traditional and it is considered unethical for women to present themselves in this way online.

Question # 5
In each mail they send at least 2 pictures. Is this normal?

Answer # 5
Why not? As for me, sending a few pictures is not bad and you can get known a woman better.

Question # 6
Some say “Tell me everything about you” “Tell me your hobbies”. I wonder if some are sincere or if they just want the info to use to scam other people. What do you think?

Answer # 6
It is very common to ask questions in online dating messages. This is a way to get to know each other better, to get an idea if you have anything in common. How are you going to find out if this woman is a potential match for you or not if you do not exchange any information about your goals, hobbies, friends, family, career, and life expectations.

The aim of online dating is basically to get to know enough about your match to encourage you that they’re genuine and interested to see if they’re someone you’d like to know better. What you communicate about your life, expectations and experience can be rather enlightening about you as a person.

Of course, online communication is not a one-way street. If you see that the woman does not reply your questions back, you should be careful with your information. You should also ask the woman some questions about herself because it helps you check whether or not she is genuine.

Question # 7
Most of them say they live with their mother, some say their family moved with their grandmother (all have said, women only, most say their father died or abandoned them). In the pictures I have seen only women and little girls who, they are supposed to be their niece. Many say they moved to a farm or far from the city. What is your opinion?

Answer # 7
It is difficult to give you an exact reply on this question. Each family story is different and it may be that most of women still live with their family. But the statement “Many say they moved to a farm or far from the city” sounds a little bit strange. How many exactly say that? As I know, young people move to bigger cities because in the villages there are no job opportunities.

Question # 8
They usually reply 2 days after. Some say they only have internet at work. Is it true or they are planning how to reply?

Answer # 8
There are no particular rules about how often you should communicate when dating online. In my opinion, there is no right and wrong here, neither inappropriate nor dishonest. Some people prefer to hear from potential matches at least daily, some people say it is sufficient for them to respond the messages just 2-3 times a week.


The variables on this issue are massive. Nobody can say what the right number is or isn’t. Remember, we all are different (that’s why the dating world is so interesting). Each dating and relationship story is diverse, too. If the woman responds you every 2nd day, it is not bad, in my view.

Question # 9
When they send me an e-mail, I asked them their profile number and the name of the dating site… Some say, Oh I deleted it because men harassed me, other can’t say that information and they avoid the question. Very few respond to that.

Answer # 9
How have you basically approached by these women? If you are registered on a dating site, you should have an overview of the profiles on it. Have you received emails with the women’s contact suggestion? In the “newsletter” case, I would not start any communication with women because, as for me, this way is not reliable.


It seems to me that dating services you have used or tried do not sound really trustworthy. How do you communicate with women if they deleted their profile on a dating site? Which communication sources do you use? Have you searched on the Internet and seen what other people say about these dating services and what experiences they have gathered with its service?

Question # 10
Most of them talk to you very affectionate even if they don’t remember your profile. How is that??

Answer # 10
It is a red sign that these women might be scammers. If the woman uses flowery language in her messages and lots of descriptive words like you are so attractive, you are my dream man or you look like a perfect man, it is more than suspicious. If you have this in your online communication, I recommend you to stop all communication directly.


This online love is like a wonderful fairy tale. Online communication and romantic letters are not the same as offline dating. So if your woman tells you that she is love with you, I would be cautious about this because the woman could be very different in person.

Question # 11
Some give their cell phone number, some deny having one, I made a call once and she said she couldn’t answer the phone because she was at the gym. No money for food but she can afford the gym?

Answer # 11
It is a red sign that these women might be scammers. If the woman uses flowery language in her messages and lots of descriptive words like you are so attractive, you are my dream man or you look like a perfect man, it is more than suspicious. If you have this in your online communication, I recommend you to stop all communication directly.

This online love is like a wonderful fairy tale. Online communication and romantic letters are not the same as offline dating. So if your woman tells you that she is love with you, I would be cautious about this because the woman could be very different in person.

Some final words. I would recommend you, first of all, to use reliable dating services

Five reasons Western men should look for a Russian & Ukrainian woman

Dear friends,

Here are the top five reasons why western men should look for Russian and Ukrainian women for marriage.

Reason #1. Adventure

Traveling to foreign lands and meeting the beautiful women who live there is exciting. Western men will get a chance to spend time in new cultures and travel to the home of the ladies they date. During their visits, they can attend events where there are literally hundreds of exotic beauties. All of these women are there to meet the man of their dreams.

Reason #2. Financial security

It costs quite a bit of money for Western men to be able to attract and win over a Russian or Ukrainian lady. Flying back and forth is just one of the expenses that will be encountered. Most experts recommend that at least $10,000 is available to fund flying, lodging and spending time overseas.

I wrote an article about the possible costs of Ukrainian online dating:
“A comprehensive cost analysis of Ukrainian and Russian mail order brides”

Reason #3. You love difference

It is exciting to meet hot women from other cultures. Getting to know them and learning the cultural influences that affect their outlook on the world makes the relationship incredibly interesting. All of these activities are only available to western men who are willing to spend time to meet women from Russia and Ukraine. Men can learn new languages and are sure to enjoy the different culture.

Reason #4. Expanding horizons

Most cities have a limited supply of eligible women. Lots of men are successful on the local dating scene, but sometimes there is not enough stimulation. Ensuring that plenty of new and exciting women are met every day is one of the benefits that western men will derive from dating Russian and Ukrainian ladies. There are plenty of sites that make it easy to Skype and chat on the Internet, and men are sure to enjoy meeting new ladies every night.

Reason #5. You have a sense of adventure and are addicted to the idea of a Russian or Ukrainian bride

You have listened to the Internet and need to see for yourself if what they say about these ladies is true. It is, and you can experience first-hand the power and seduction that these exotic ladies offer. The hype is true. There is only one way to find out for sure, and that is to step in and try it out.

Dear readers, why are you looking for Ukrainian women? I would appreciate your feedback!

Three tips how to overcome language barriers in a Ukrainian-Western relationship

Dear friends,

Today, we continue to talk about language, rather we will discuss the possibility of overcoming language barriers in a Ukrainian-Western relationship. I think this important issue cannot be ignored by the partners because an open communication and understanding are keys to a happy intercultural relationship. Since the modern world is more like a ‘Melting Pot’, intercultural relationships have become normal than exceptions. As the concept of global village is taking over, cultural, lingual and behavioral differences amongst people are blurring away gradually.

You can always fall in love with a Ukrainian woman who understands you as a person and shares a lot of similarities with you; her complexion or language might not matter when love creeps in! However the Ukrainian-Western relationships come with unique challenge that is precisely ‘Language Barrier‘.

There is a common concept – ‘Men and women speak different languages altogether!‘ Now it becomes a crude realty when you try to date a woman coming from Ukraine and speaking a different language. Following are a few general tips on communicating with a Ukrainian woman (that means someone from another language background):

Tip #1: You can use facial or hand gestures to make your lady from Ukraine understand you. Electronic translator devices are also available nowadays which will instantly translate your language to hers. However a machine can always translate the words but not the emotions.

Tip #2: Search over the Internet and find out about Ukrainian culture and background (e.g. the Ukrainian Dating Blog and Ukrainian Dating Stories). Learn and memorize some important phrases in her language and use them appropriately. Certainly she will be touched with your sincerity and effort.

Tip #3: You can always use an interpreter although it sounds a real turn-off to me! Seeking help from a third person can be really dissuading especially for a lady.

Now the solution to this problem greatly depends on what you expect from the relationship or how serious you are about it. Even if you get an electronic translator or learn a few basic phrases of Ukrainian or Russian, it is simply not enough if you wish to go for a long term relationship. There will be miscommunication and misunderstanding always until and unless either of you learns to speak each other’s language.

Although learning a new language is always tough, things get easier with patience and hard work; especially when you learn it from a loved one. Spend some time communicating with your partner in her language and ask her the meanings for certain phrases she uses in her conversation with you or others. Make a note of the meaning and try to use them while speaking with her.

Even if you do not become a great speaker of the foreign language, you can at least understand what she is talking about. Finally love has a common language spoken through eyes and body language. Till the time you find a feasible resolution to the language problems, try the language of love and you won’t regret it…Trust me!!

What do Western men want in a Ukrainian or Russian wife?

Dear friends,

Every year thousands of Western men marry Russian and Ukrainian women. What does a Western man look for in a potential Russian and Ukrainian bride? A recent survey and focus group was conducted by experts who talked to men and asked them what they want in a bride (for more information click here). Here is some information about the top three traits that Russian and Ukrainian women need to have to marry themselves a Western husband.

The first trait is that they have to be loyal.

One-quarter of the Western men who were surveyed listed this as their most desired quality in a woman from Russia or Ukraine. Men do not want a wife that they do not feel that they can trust. Loyalty is important because men have to be able to trust their wives with their lives, money, home and in some instances their children.

If a Russian / Ukrainian woman cannot be trusted because she acts secretively or flirts with other men then the relationship probably will not be successful. Men want to feel secure in their relationships so they have to trust their wife completely to have a solid relationship.

Some women from Russia or Ukraine have been known to use men so that they can network and find someone else who has more money to spend on them. Men do not want to be taken advantage of and used by women; they want someone who they can rely on through thick and thin.

The second trait is being in love with them.

15% of men stated that they wanted their bride to have genuine feelings of love for them. Love is important because without it people tend to seek affection from other sources such as online or extra marital relationships. Some Russian / Ukrainian women want to get married for financial security alone but this tends to create

The third trait which 10% of men are looking for is honesty.

In today’s day and age, it can be hard to believe everything that you hear. When choosing a wife, men want a Russian/Ukrainian woman who is honest. Some are and tell men only what they want to hear which can evolve into a very toxic relationship. Honesty is the best policy so potential wives need to show that they are honest.

There was also a focus group done asking men what they wish for in a Russian or Ukraine wife. 49% of Western men looking for a woman from Russia or Ukraine stated that they wanted an honest woman, 42% said they wanted a woman with a nice appearance and 34% of men said that loyalty and faithfulness were qualities they preferred in a spouse.

The men were given a list of fifty qualities to choose from for their answers for the survey which is most likely why physical appearance was not on the list of top three desired traits in the survey.

Some people think that Western men only want to marry Russian and Ukrainian women because of their looks but this is not true at all. The men primarily focused on requesting character traits over physical appearance which shows that they want to have a long-term relationship that will thrive.

Most men will have children with the women that they marry so choosing the right mate is crucial to raising children that are happy and well-adjusted. When Ukrainian and Russian women and Western men visit International dating sites they should take this information to heart so that they can find a spouse that is right for them.

Marriages take a lot of hard work and dedication so finding Ukrainian and Russian ladies with these three traits can help men build long-lasting marriages and families.

Would you date yourself? Reciprocal traits in a Russian or Ukrainian bride

Dear friends,

Everyone has a checklist of traits and qualifications that they keep in mind when looking for a significant other. When you’re dating, you may realize that the other party may reveal a portion of themselves that puts a kibosh on any potential; something that person said, did, or thinks just didn’t sync up with how you see a partner.

However, it’s important that you look inward from time to time and consider whether or not that you may need to work on the very things you are critical of others about; in essence, would you date yourself?

My best advice in moving forward begins with coming up with a list of qualities you consider valuable for a partner to possess that you may also need to work upon internally.

Below are ten such qualities. Factors that you may expect from a romantic prospect that you may need to work upon with yourself. This list is put forth with no particular order in mind.

#1: Professional Reputation.

Not many people are interested in someone that works a job over a career. While the economy can be crushing, having a legitimate career that you take pride in, complete with a salary and benefits conveys stability and confidence.

#2: Forthrightness. While it can sometimes be a difficult course to follow, honesty is almost always appreciated.

#3: Civility.

This goes hand in hand with showing maturity in one’s dealings. A genteel persona is appealing and preferable to that of a rude one.

#4: Wholesomeness.

While everyone goes for a “bad boy” or “bad girl” at one point or another in their dating lives, such relationships are ultimately short-sighted and fleeting. The individuals that convey an edifying aura of virtue and propriety are the ones whom are destined for dedicated relationships.

#5: Approachability.

People will always prefer someone with a balanced, pragmatic attitude over someone known to have an erratic or high maintenance attitude.

#6: Organization.

No one likes a long circuitous route when going upon the trip of explaining yourself in any capacity. If you’ve got baggage from previous relationships, you should be direct and inform the potential interest. If you have any legal issues that could snarl your way of life, inform the potential interest. Ultimately, this point of advice boils down to making sure that you are in control of your own life.

#7: Ambitions.

This goes beyond the above point regarding professional reputation, although it coexists with that point, you should always be striving to improve your standing in life and have plans, rather than concepts and outlines, to execute those plans successfully.

#8: Loyalty.

When you have someone that works for you, there is little reason to try juggling that person among other potential candidates. Disloyalty can quickly lead to all sorts of negative influences in your life and can even result in damaging your standing among some of these other tips, such as being honest.

#9: Don’t Treat Romance as a Numbers Game.

Firstly, ignoring this advice flows greatly against the current of wholesomeness and perverts the idea of having ambition. The old adage about a broken clock being right twice a day does not hold as much weight within the realm of dating. Overconfidence in courting can lead to an unsavory reputation that will gain more traction than your number ever could.

#10: Maturity.

Very few people are interested in dealing with a childish adult. Carry yourself with sophistication and a level head.

Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When they Date Ukrainian Women

It is no secret that Ukrainian women are incredibly beautiful. However, being beautiful is not the only thing at which those ladies excel. I have been to Ukraine twice and every time I have been there, I didn’t want to leave the country.

The fact that the women are extremely gorgeous is not the only thing that makes them so special. They combine beauty with intelligence and the perfect portion of traditional family values. Dating a Ukrainian woman is truly an amazing experience and every man who hasn’t been to this wonderful country in Eastern Europe should book a flight within the next days.

Dating those ladies will make your heart thump but if you think that all you have to do in order to cast a spell over those women is to behave the same way you would behave in your home country, you are doomed to have one bad date after another.

For me it was anything but easy when I traveled to Kiev the first time and even the second time when I went to Zaporizhia I made a ton of mistakes during my dates. I did everything wrong that you could do wrong but after I gained some dating experience in this country, my dates started to become better.

In the following lines I want to share the top ten mistakes with you that I made and that a lot of guys still make when they start to date Ukrainian women. I am sure that if you put the advice of this article into practice, your next date with a Ukrainian lady will be the best date you ever had.

(1.) You Show No Interest in the Culture

The number one mistake that I saw a lot of guys make when they were dating Ukraine women is that they didn’t show any interest in the culture of the girl they spent their time with. An American guy who wanted to date Ukraine women even told me that he couldn’t show me Ukraine on a map.

Of course a woman isn’t impressed with you if you can’t even find her country on a map. In case you are interested in dating women from other cultures, no matter if they are from Ukraine or any other country in the world, you should at least show some interested in their cultural background.

You don’t have to be fluent in the language but knowing a few facts about the history shows her that you are not just another ignorant foreigner.

(2.) You Fall in Love with a Picture

Are you registered on an online dating site to meet Ukrainian women? That’s great. Online dating offers the best opportunity to get in contact with women from this country, without spending hundreds of dollars on a flight every week

However, don’t make the mistake and rely completely on e-mails and don’t make the mistake to fall in love with a picture, without even meeting the woman who is on the picture. A picture doesn’t reveal her personality, her values and her beliefs.

If you are serious about finding a Ukrainian girlfriend or wife, there is no way around meeting her in person.

(3.) You Try to Impress Them with Money

Who hasn’t heard about the stereotype that all Ukrainian women are gold diggers? I think this stereotype not only causes a big fear in men, but it also motivates them to act in a way that scares all the good women away.

There are some women who want a man with money but those women exist in every country and like in every country, they only make a small portion. Most women you will meet in the Ukraine have enough money to make a living and don’t need any financial benefits from you.

Unfortunately, the belief that all Ukrainian women want your money motivates a lot of men to impress them with their money. Of course this whole thing backfires. The only thing you do with this behavior is to attract the gold diggers and to scare away the girls who are perfect for you and who don’t want your money.

(4.) You Make Rash Decisions

Love is an amazing feeling and if you haven’t been in love for a while I can totally understand that you want to experience this feeling as fast as you can. This need can easily lead to the illusion that you are in love with a girl, even though you just met her yesterday.

The beauty, the charm and the feminine attitude of Ukrainian women make it extremely easy for a man to fall in love with them. Nevertheless, you shouldn’t make any rash decisions that you might regret after a month or a year.

(5.) You Search a Housewife Instead of Love

Another big mistake that men make is that they want to date Ukrainian women for the wrong reason. If you are looking for your soulmate and if your goal is to find the love of your life in the Ukraine, you should definitely go there.

If you, however, want to find someone who cooks for you and who does the housework, you shouldn’t travel to the Ukraine. Those women want to find a man who wants a relationship with them because he loves them and not because he needs someone who runs the house.

(6.) You Want to Appear Superior

I have seen it in Thailand, I have seen it in Romania and I have seen it in the Ukraine. There are always a small percentage of guys who only want to date women from those countries because it gives them the feeling that they are the superior hero who rescues the poor girl.

Sorry, but this has nothing to do with love and affection. If feeling superior is your only motivation to date Ukrainian women, you should stay out of the country. Ukrainian women don’t need and don’t want to be rescued.

(7.) You Get Paranoid Because of Scammers

What is the first reaction that a man gets when he tells his friends that he registered a profile on a Ukrainian online dating site? His friends will most likely warn him that there are a lot of scammers out there. Then he will type “Ukraine dating scams” into Google and the more he reads about this topic the more paranoid he will get.

Please don’t get overly confused about dating a scammer and don’t make the mistake to assume that every girl who shows interest in you wants to scam you. I don’t deny the fact that there are indeed a few scammers on online dating sites but the amount of women who don’t even think about scamming you prevails.

(8.) You Take Her for Granted

Of course you should never take your girlfriend for granted, no matter where she comes from. Unfortunately, some men make the mistake that they take their Ukrainian girlfriend for granted because they assume that she won’t leave him anyway.

This false assumption comes from the misbelief that all Ukrainian women are happy once they meet a foreigner and won’t ever leave him, no matter what he does. In case you are one of the guys who take his Ukraine girlfriend or wife for granted, you don’t have to wonder when she leaves you faster than you expected.

(9.) You Put Her on a Pedestal

Another mistake that men make when they are dating Ukrainian women is that they put them on a pedestal. This is the complete opposite of taking her for granted but that doesn’t mean that it is more beneficial to your dating life.

Women love compliments and they also appreciate it when a man shows their affection but the last thing that a woman wants is a man who lives only for her. Especially Ukrainian women want men who are emotionally strong and who have a vision in life. Unless you have another purpose in your life than your girlfriend, she won’t be your girlfriend for too long.

(10.) Avoiding to Fall in Love

There are many beautiful women in Ukraine and even though this is amazing, it can also be very dangerous. I have met one man who told me that he found his dream girl in the Ukraine and that he still managed to mess the relationship up by trying to date other girls.

The biggest mistake you can make is to think that you can find an even prettier girl around the corner, even though you already found a woman you are in love with. Don’t risk the love of your life because you are scared that you are missing out on something.

Written by Sebastian, the owner of globalseducer.com and dating coach

5 basic rules to help find the ideal wife from Ukraine and Russia

Dear friends,

We all know how difficult it is to find a wife in Ukraine or Russia. Internet scam, unreliable dating and matchmaking services, brides without good faith and honest intentions… What to do? How to find the ideal Ukrainian bride for marriage?

Today, I would like to give 5 basic rules which could help you in your search for a foreign woman:

1) Make a realistic wish list

Develop a (Ukrainian) online dating strategy before you begin. Be specific and realistic with the requirements you need in a woman. The wish list should be achievable in a normal dating world. For example, if you want a woman in a specific career, be specific on that.

In your list, you should therefore mention that the woman should be doctor, lawyer of a teacher. Do not just say the woman should be working. If your children are to be raised up exclusively with their mother, mention the woman should be willing to quit her job to raise the children first. This makes it easier to get a woman that you are truly compatible with. The man should also mention where he intends to live if they get married.

Some Russian and Ukrainian women prefer staying in their country, while others are flexible to migrate to the Western country. This will save you a lot of arguments in the future. Be realistic and specific, like saying ‘I want two children, one adopted’ instead of stating, ‘I want very many children, and adopt very many other too’, are you starting a children’s home, or children’s center? Asking for great models or Russian and Ukrainian women with features and characteristics of movie stars, will be a total waste of time.

2) Go online and find a reliable matchmaking service

Using the right dating sites and matchmaking services is very crucial. Select a few reliable sites to use. Doing some research on the sites before using them, will help you from concentrating on unreliable sites. Some of the profiles on some women could be fraudulent. This is why having several options is recommended. Getting some recommendations from friends who had used the sites before, could be useful.

Ukrainian Dating Sites vs. Matchmaking Agencies

Be sure to read most of the reviews from other western men who used the site. This will help in making a judgment of what sites are more favorable for you. Do not shy away from expensive sites. At times, quality is expensive, and you definitely want quality services. You must also bear in mind that cheap is good at times. Do a background study and have arrange of options.

3) Keep your profile short

Long profiles are boring and tedious. Give a great and real bio, with realistic expectations. Western men must keep it short and straightforward as much as possible. 300 words are enough to make an impression. You will get time to discuss more about yourself during your dating life. A good short profile is also attractive and shows how organized a man is. This could be a bonus to getting a good wife.

It is good to state your likes and dislikes. This gives the Russian or Ukraine woman an idea of what she will put up with if she marries you. A profile of over 500 words is unnecessarily too wordy. It could even be confusing for a woman to keep track of an impression of you.

Mentioning your likes and dislikes could put off a potential wife for you. It narrows down the choices, as people are very different in the world and getting someone who is the same as you, are slim to none. Remember to keep it simple, short and friendly.

4) Be selective

It is very easy to fall for the wrong woman, based on her beauty. One must put in mind that if he wants a serious relationship, a lot of things and values must be considered. Rushing into expressing you feelings to the Russian woman, before knowing her better, is not a wise step. Do not just pick up just any Russian or Ukrainian woman on the site, and ask for a resinous relationship.

Some could be swindles and end up wasting your time and making fun of you. The women are so beautiful and charming, but not only that can keep you together forever. Get to know the woman’s life, dislikes and likes, secrets, friends, limits and extremes. This is enough to make a judgment on the overall character of the woman. Patient and sound judgment are important virtues when pursuing love online.

5) Learn dealing with rejection

Anger is no solution. It is normal for the western men to be rejected by the Russian and Ukrainian ladies (yes, shit happens). Sometime, they retaliate by giving bad reviews about them (we all are scammers and gold-diggers because the man was rejected. It is not his fault – Russian and Ukrainian women are just bad). Tweetinyg and texting or emailing negative comments about the women from Russia and Ukraine will not increase your chances for getting the wife from these both countries.

Western men should learn to be calm and accept that shit happens at times. They should pick up their shit and go for another chance. Just because you like a woman does not guarantee that she will like you back. She equally has her list of expectations. Learn to respect others’ choices. You might never know when your lucky day is, keep on trying and do not give up.

What to discuss at the first date with a Russian woman

Dear friends,

The first date with a Russian or Ukrainian woman is very important and exiting event, which will probably live strong impression for both you and your vis-à-vis. Avoiding unnecessary exaggeration, still, it is a good thing to get yourself morally prepared for this meeting or at least to make up your mind a bit on this occasion, in order to feel yourself more relaxed and comfortable in the company of your Slavic girlfriend.

There are, of course, dos and don’ts of the first date and we shall mention both, though, I believe, suggestions provided by a dating site uamatch.com wouldn’t surprise you much.

Okay, so things you should never discuss on a date as long as you are not acquainted enough with the a Russian or Ukrainian woman are sex, politics and religion. Pretty common, eh? These are the universal rules of politeness because these notions are to replete and touching this kind of topic without the required care may cause an awkward situation. So before you are sure about the soil you’re stepping, take care about the topics you choose.

Start your conversion slowly

Best thing to start a conversation is a discussion of the way you guys have found each other. It is always interesting to share the experience of two sides making advances and that’s kind of easy way of verbalizing and, therefore, starting your mutual history, painting the story together and for each other.

Do not discuss your Ex partners. It is, indeed, shaky road to step as you don’t know yet what kind of reaction it may cause and where this conversation may bring you. Let bygones be bygones, it is way more interesting to start a new story with your new woman from Russia or Ukraine.

Being a gentleman!

Try to be attentive and feel the mood of your lady as this is the key to the easy-going and opened conversation. And by the way, be sincere. Sincere about your mood, your impression your feelings and your attitude towards her. That would, first, make you an honest start and, second, cause your date to behave in the same way. Russian and Ukrainian girls love when men take an initiative, so be prepared to be the one to start a conversation and make things go.

Being active

Though you are expected to take an active part, do not overstate and show yourself off. There is a huge difference between these two kinds of behavior so you better just be yourself rather than trying to look more confident then you’re actually are. That looks repulsive and may spoil the first impression (which you do want to make in a nice way).

Paying for the woman

Same thing is about the money – don’t spend too much and don’t make pompous presents.

Should I always pay for a date with a Ukrainian lady?

If you are that generous, keep it till you are sure that this is the woman you are ready to give it to. Excessive lavishness in the beginning is quite incongruous that may bring you disappointment if things wouldn’t workout as much as confuse the lady with your probable expectations, proportionate to your expenditure. Flowers or small souvenir present will do. Your intention is to show your regards, after all, so be moderate in your expressions and keep it slow.

And as far as our topic gets to its logical end here’s a thing for you to do at the end of the day: pay the bill. Slavic women who are looking for a western man are somewhat conservative, so forget this German-bill stuff and pay for the dinner. First – it is the matter of courtesy and another important detail – it will show you as a generous guy and make you look as a real gentleman.

Learn about what to do on the very first date with a Ukrainian and Russian woman:

- First date questions that create an enjoyable conversation with Ukrainian women
- Tips how to date a Ukrainian woman with no English
- Advice how to navigate your first date with a Ukrainian woman

I wish you a lot of luck in Ukrainian dating adventure!

What Is So Special about Ukrainian Women?

If you have been hearing rumors about the availability and desirability of Ukrainian women as possible love interests or marriage partners, you may be wondering just what is so special about these women, and why would they be interested in a foreigner such as yourself. The hard facts seem to be that there are more eligible females than males in the Ukraine, making the prospects of finding a husband more challenging for the average Ukrainian woman. Since the culture very much supports the traditional gender role models of provider husband and loving wife and mother, the number one priority for these young women is to be married and raising children in a stable, loving relationship.

While Ukrainian women tend to be in better physical shape because of the increased amount of walking they are required to do in their country, it is their serious attention to looking nice all the time that has given them the reputation as world beauties. Dressing in feminine, stylish, and tight-fitting clothes is the norm, especially in the big cities where most foreign males tend to hang out. Taking the time to fix their hair and make-up also makes a big difference. The old lyrics, “I enjoy being a girl”….is definitely true of the Ukrainian woman. Flirtation not only is acceptable, but also encouraged as a way to enjoy life and meet the opposite sex. Of course, this is a very attractive feature to foreign men looking for a young woman who might pay them serious attention.

While it is unquestionably true the women of the Ukraine want a marriage with financial security, it is not necessary to be wealthy to impress them. They are most interested in knowing that they and their future children will be provided for in a loving, stable home. Yes, there may be an occasional situation in which a marriage to a foreigner may be for the purpose of obtaining a green card, but that is really the exception. More often than not, a Ukrainian woman wants what every human being wants, to love and be loved, and if that requires falling in love with and marrying a foreigner, so be it.

Why Do Ukrainian and Russian Girls Like Western Men?

To Ukrainian and Russian girls, Western men are foreign and exotic. They have a level of freedom those from eastern countries envy and wish to enjoy. After searching for romance in traditional places such as their native land or among local communities and not finding love, many Ukrainian and Russian girls turn toward Western men to find love. With a variety of international dating sites available, finding love and romance with Western men has more possibilities than ever.

Many Western men have a more relaxed attitude toward life and love, which can be appealing to women who are used to a more rigid or formal attitude or upbringing. Western culture often has a strong appeal to women from other cultures as the more open and free lifestyle is refreshing. Western men are often known not only for being more open minded and assertive but also for their sense of humor. Many women, not just those from more eastern countries, find a good sense of humor a strongly desired trait in a man, and Western men excel at this.

Another trait that attracts Ukrainian and Russian women to Western men is their level of maturity. While many Western men have a high enjoyment of life and may be prone to the pursuit of fun, a strong drive to work hard and enjoy success makes them a desirable partner for any woman. Russian and Ukrainian women are well known for their devotion and exotic looks which make them equally attractive for Western men.

Searching for love or romance on an international level also helps to expand the options of men available to Ukrainian and Russian women instead of a fairly small dating pool that may be available locally. With more dating options available, many women from these countries feel they have a better opportunity to find love. It is not uncommon for relationships formed in this manner to lead to marriage or long term dating, making it ideal for those are are marriage minded.

The Perfect (Ukrainian) Bride

Almost every man has a Dream Woman, and with very little urging, he’ll be happy to describe her. Whether she is tall and slender or petite and curvy, has the classic features of a supermodel or the soft sweetness of a sassy angel, there is always a definite preference.

When it is time to make marriage decisions, a lot of American men look beyond U.S. shores for that perfect woman. Among the things that will make them seek Ukrainian brides are the myths surrounding them. For many men, these myths seem to offer the touch of perfection that they want in a wife. But when it comes to perfection, there is almost always a mythical base.

The five biggest myths that send American men in search of Ukrainian brides are:

• Women of the Ukraine are sensual, beautiful, and healthy, and they will remain that way well into their senior years.
• All Ukrainian women are well-educated and intelligent.
• These women are very hard working and make every effort to please their husband in every way.
• All Ukrainian women have traditional values and are devoted to their husband, family, and homes.
• All Ukrainian women are looking for older men (5-15 years their senior) who can offer stability. They want lasting marriages.

When taking a Ukrainian bride, a man wants his wife to be special, and why shouldn’t she be? Marriage is a long-term commitment, and if you are planning on marriage and family, you want to be with the best possible person, right? You want to be comfortable in your own home, and you want to be with a woman who sees making a house into a home as a priority, don’t you? You want to share your life with someone who has morals and values, but wouldn’t it be nice if she was beautiful and sensuous, too?

Absolutely.

In a perfect world, every woman would be beautiful, compliant, clever, and totally dedicated to her man. But it’s not a perfect world, so large numbers of American men are looking to the women of the Ukraine and dreaming of love.

An Ukrainian bride with a child – Problem or Happyness?

You have hoped and prayed for this miracle to happen. You have been patient, found the right Ukrainian dating service, crossed your fingers and searched with care. Then it happened, through Ukrainian dating, you meet the woman of your dreams! She has everything you could ask for and more…like a child.

Before things go any farther with your wonderful woman of the Ukraine, you need to resolve any problems or conflicts you might feel about her child. You need to be truly honest and ask yourself whether your heart is big enough and your will is strong enough to make this happyness a reality.

If you have been married in the past and have children, or have lived in a blended family, you already have valuable experience that you can use to make this marriage a success. If you have custody of your child or children, then both you and your Ukrainian bride-to-be will be in the same position and can help each other with difficulties in equal measure.

Of course, the age and sex of your Lady Love’s child makes a great amount of difference. A baby or very small child’s acceptance of you will likely be quick and uncomplicated. Soon you will be looked at as Daddy by the child and you both can enjoy a loving relationship.

The older a child is, the more potential problems you may encounter. Especially an older or teenage boy has likely felt like his mother’s protector. An open heart toward the boy will go a long way; however, you might consider a little honest bribery. A gift of basketball shoes, laptop, or Ipod from his new American Dad may help.

A teenage girl likely knew all about her mother’s Ukrainian dating service experience, and may well be caught up in all the excitement and romance. Even if she is all for the marriage, a little shopping spree at the mall or a day spa pampering by way of a “thank you” wouldn’t be amiss.

A wise man once wrote that “Love conquers all.” If you want it badly enough, happyness can be yours.

What Ukrainian and Russian Women Really Want

Ukrainian and Russian women are some of the most beautiful and intelligent women in the world. That’s why some of the world’s most successful and intelligent men choose Ukrainian and Russian brides. There are many services that can help you to meet eligible young Ukrainian and Russian women, but it’s up to you to convince them that you can offer them a good life in the Western world.

Ukrainian brides So what do they really want? For the most part, what everyone woman wants. While men often rank appearance as the number one quality they look for in a woman, women – including Ukrainian and Russian women – just want a good man. They want an honest man, a loyal man, a man that makes them laugh. When it comes to these women, nice guys DON’T finish last.

Here in the Western hemisphere, traditional husband and wife roles are quickly becoming a thing of the past. But in Russia and Ukraine most women still aspire to be treasured wives, to raise good children, and above all else to be the pillar that supports a happy and secure family. While material things appeal to every woman, these women’s priorities are more traditional. They want a husband that they can respect and rely on – not a sugar daddy, but a bread winner for their someday family.

How can you impress potential Russian and Ukrainian brides? Not with pick-up lines from the bar, for starters. These women aren’t looking for a fling, and if they’re beautiful then chances are they know it. While compliments are nice, they want to know if the two of you will be truly compatible. They want to hear about your career ambitions and your family plans, important personal preferences like your religion and what you want in your future wife.

Women of the Ukraine – Women of Substance

You know, gentlemen, native born Ukrainian women have many things in common with women from other cultures across the globe, despite the myths that surround them. These women are typically known for wanting out of the Ukraine and into the arms of western sugar daddies (poor American guys :))

Many websites offer up Ukrainian women as frisky and submissive creatures who are ready and willing to please their prospective mates, and to do it on a moment’s notice. This may be the case with a small percentage of Ukrainian women, just like any other culture, but the rest of them want what most everyone else wants: a chance to be happy.

Ukrainian women for marriageNot only are these women smart and talented, they also come in many different shapes and sizes. They’re outgoing, playful, funny, and extremely beautiful on the inside as well. Physical beauty shouldn’t even be mentioned because most everyone knows that Ukrainian women are drop-dead gorgeous. These women are in touch with their feelings and not bashful about showing them. Materialism takes a back seat as the simple pleasures in life are of primary importance. These particular women also possess good instincts, placing them in the “complete package” category. The most prominent stereotype that links Ukrainian women for marriage and marriage only simply isn’t true.

Finding single Ukrainian women for marriage may be a great idea, but for reasons other than treating them as pieces of property. Women of the Ukraine know how to behave intelligently and classy in many different settings, whether business, social, intimate, or otherwise. They’re educated, cultured, and understanding. They’re more than willing to contribute by getting their hands dirty, and not afraid to stick their fingers in the pie of financial success. Ukrainian female entrepreneurs exist in the global market and are steadily gaining strength in numbers.

Dispelling the myth about Ukrainian women being good for marriage alone needs to be addressed. Ukrainian women are proud of who and what they are, and they’re a lot of different things, and yes, they make suitable mates as well. Asking for more than that should be against the law

5 Incredible Myths About Ukrainian Women

Dear friends,

There are a lot of positive stereotypes of Ukraine women for marriage – they’re unusually beautiful, they’re sweet, they’re smart and they’re kind – but there are also some outrageous negative stereotypes which may prevent eligible men from seeking a truly qualified match through an online dating service. Here are a few outrageous myths women of Ukraine…

Myth 1: Ukrainian women Are Uneducated

Many people assume that because these women are actively looking for husbands in another country they have no opportunities in their own, but the truth is that most Ukrainian brides ARE educated and even have careers – they simply see more opportunities for themselves and their children in the West.

Myth 2: Ukrainian women for marriage are Golddiggers

Time and time again foreign brides are depicted on television and in the movies as devious beauties scheming to fleece some well-meaning man of his hard-earned fortune. The truth is that Ukrainian and Russian brides are looking for the same thing as any other woman: a loving husband, a secure home and a family.

Myth 3: Ukrainian brides Lie about Their Age

This laughable myth no doubt comes from the insecurity and anxiety many people experience when they’re starting to have feelings for someone they can’t readily see. Hundreds of satisfied husbands will tell you, though, that their Ukrainian wives are even more beautiful and sweet in person.

Myth 4: Ukrainian brides Are Simply Looking for a Green Card

This myth implies that brides from Ukraine and Russia are so desparate to get into Europe and America that they would marry a man simply to become a citizen. It goes without saying that it’s not THAT hard to get into America, and that these beautiful and enterprising women could easily move there on their own. Their true motivation, as always, is love and family.


Myth 5: Ukraine Brides Are Spies

Ok, we’re kidding :), but the previous four assumptions about foreign brides are just as ridiculous. Rather than believe the myths, why not talk to a few potential brides and see for yourself?

Why do Single Ukrainian Women Seek Relationships Abroad?

The majority of single Ukrainian women are seeking relationships with men abroad. Why is this you ask? I think it is mainly due to the type of men that are available in the Ukraine. The men over in the Ukraine are rumored to be very violent and abusive. They are alcoholics, as we all know that no woman wants to spend her life in a relationship in which she is not fully appreciated and abused. As all us women are searching for fulfilling relationship that meets our needs. Therefore, Ukrainian women are taking part of online dating services to connect themselves to men all over the world.

single ukrainian woman Most Ukrainian women are looking for a husband in the western world that is sensitive. I think they believe that men in the western world have the potential to be better husbands and fathers than when compared to men in their region. This is due to the stereotypes that most western world men have. In addition, I think they understand that in the United States the sort of behavior that men in the Ukraine exhibit is frowned upon over here as domestic abuse is considered a crime. In addition, I know the media portrays western men as more caring and supportive of their women, which is true.

In addition, I know that the living conditions in the Ukraine are not the best in the world, so single Ukrainian women are looking for a way to get out and find a better life. What better way to do this than finding a husband from another country. These Ukrainian women are trying to better their lives and the first way that they do this is to find a mate that will treat them right. As a woman myself, I understand why they are looking for the best instead of settling for what they may have to deal with. If I were in their position, I too would be looking for a man through an online dating service. Many people falsely believed that these single Ukrainian women are just looking for a rich man to live out the rest of their life with, but in all honesty, they are looking for love just as everyone is.

Kiev Girls – Hot or Not?

Oh boy, here we go. So the debate comes up, are Kiev Girls hot, or aren’t they? Kiev is Ukraine’s capitol city. Ukraine is not the most urbane of countries. It is the second-largest country in Eastern Europe, geographically, and the CIA has placed it at the 29th rank economically. Now, ordinarily this would paint it as a backwater not worth exploring, but that’d be a bit too shallow. Kiev is an urban center that simply must be explored, for its beautiful women if nothing else; it is a unique bastion of urban life in the frozen plains of the Ukraine.

Ukrainians are distinct from Russians with regard to genetic histories and features. They have much finer facial structures, somewhat sparer frames–they’re still an ethnic group that developed in the harsh cold, and they’ve been put through the economic crucible, which certainly colors their culture and attitudes, but Kiev Girls know exactly what they’re doing with their strong frames, and they can flaunt it. For a hint, look up the Ukraine’s former Prime Minister Yulia Timoshenko.

Beautiful Ukrainian women are the majority, not the minority. Their attractiveness has a tendency to come down to their attitudes. With the bulk of the women interested in dating sourced from Kiev, the most Beautiful Ukrainian Women are those that are of even temper and no pretension. As with any big city anywhere in the world, Kiev does have many that think of themselves as higher than they are simply by rite of where they come from and where they live.

Ukrainian women from Kiev have a distinct set of features not matched nor mirrored by any other country’s girls. They are unique to their home and their culture, and having weathered centuries of harsh winter and famine has only drawn from them a strong determination they draw on in all that they do, from the most basic to the most complex things that should cross their minds or hearts.

Let’s Be Smart…Do Not Upset a single Ukrainian Woman

Why do I not like the term “Ukraine mail order brides?”

Well, let me just start off by saying that there is not a single Ukrainian woman out there that should be referred to in the same manner as an ipod shipped across seas from China to the Unites States of America; people should never be implied as being objects. Although Western men tend to use the term freely when searching for a bride, Ukrainian women are not in agreement of using the term.

I am a Ukrainian woman, not Ukraine mail order bride

In my opinion, the term “Ukraine mail order brides” makes a woman feel like an object. I guess certain fetishes would be the argument for this, but let’s just make that idea the exception in referring to these beautiful women. I know that most Ukrainian and Russian women probably aren’t too fond of being referred to the same way a piece of merchandise of a store is referred to.

I’m assuming that women, in general, don’t like being commercialized in the same manner as that of an advertisement on television. Women of the Ukraine are merely looking for love; it is a culture that centers itself greatly on marriage. I would assume it would be fairly impossible for every single woman to find a husband in the Ukraine due to the man to woman ratio; there are 8 men for every 10 women. Ukrainian women really have no other choice but to look outside their country for marriage, so they look online. I think of an online match making situation sort of like a meeting at a social place…a woman still has the option to decline if she doesn’t like what she sees. There is no way that a woman deserves to be referred to in a way she doesn’t agree with, simply because the country she lives in doesn’t have what she’s looking for.

All in all, let’s not forget the simple, yet true, theory that a happy wife equals a happy life; it would behoove any man in search of marriage not to upset a woman by using a term she’s not happy with.

The Beauty Secrets of Ukraine Women

Women of Ukraine are stunning, and everyone wants to know their secrets. While it’s undeniable that genetics play a strong role in their beauty (the long, lean figures and the big bright eyes) no one should feel that they cannot achieve the look. Here are some tips that I feel will help you look and feel your best every day.

Ukrainians work what they’ve got! They aren’t afraid to look great and turn heads. I think one of the biggest advantages that Ukraine women have is their attitude; sexiness isn’t just looking the part, it’s about feeling sexy. Women of Ukraine know they’re gorgeous, and that’s largely why they exude such charm.

I am a woman of Ukraine :)

The most important beauty secret is being healthy. Ukraine women are proud of their bodies and treat them with care and respect. They don’t try to starve themselves to fit a ridiculous idea, nor do they overindulge and let themselves go. They eat right, exercise, and get enough sleep because they know that these are the foundations of beauty.

Be sure to treat your skin and hair with the best products to keep both healthy and beautiful. Ukraine beauties use the best shampoos and conditioners and always make sure their hair is done. Learn some quick and easy styles for your hair type, so you can always look your best, even in a rush. They always use quality lotions and creams on their skin to protect it.

Experiment with makeup styles to see what works best for you. Women of Ukraine invest time discovering their ideal look, and it’s a worthwhile endeavor. Ultimately, having your makeup routine down will save you time, so find your look and wear it proudly each day.

Remember, clothing is important! Ukraine women always dress their best, even if they’re just running to the store. Don’t wear baggy t-shirts and frumpy jeans! Put on a nice blouse and some high-heels! Buy clothes that highlight your best attributes and you’ll always look great.

Now put it all together: attitude, health, good makeup, and nice clothes. You now have the makings of a Ukrainian beauty!

Russian Ukrainian women – Interesting Facts about Russian Culture in Ukraine

Many people in the West are, unfortunately, ignorant of Russian and Ukrainian culture, except for the distorted versions they see in movies or TV. But knowing a few facts can go a long way, especially if you’re planning to meet Russian Ukrainian women.

Russian influence in the Ukraine stretches back to the 18th century

The Ukraine has, of course, been an independent country since the demise of the Soviet Union, and Ukrainians have always cherished their unique culture. But Russian influence on life in the Ukraine stretches back to at least the 18th century, and the influence only became stronger when the Ukraine was absorbed into the Soviet Union. So, especially in east Ukraine, Russian ideas are inextricably tangled up with Ukrainian culture.

East Ukrainians are, in my experience, almost entirely native Russian speakers. The use of Russian as an official language is an ongoing sore point in Ukrainian politics, but unofficially, Russian is widely used in ordinary life, in books, TV, and magazines, and many people grow up speaking Russian. Despite this, many Ukrainians are also fiercely patriotic — especially as their country climbs its way out of the shadow of the Soviet Union — and resent being mistaken for Russians.

In general, Ukrainians are more friendly toward the West, and more eager to adopt Western styles and attitudes, than Russians. However, Ukrainians have also adopted Russian cynicism toward wealth and success: if you’re well-off, it’s because you know the right people, not because of hard work or talent. Despite this, Ukrainians are extremely generous to their friends.

Ukrainians, especially older Ukrainians who lived through the Soviet years, can seem cold and reserved at first. Once they get to know you, however, they make friends much more rapidly and deeply than Westerners or Russians do. So when dealing with Russian Ukrainian women, a little courtesy can go a long way!

Ukrainian women and jealousy: don’t turn them into a beast

Let’s be honest: sometimes Ukrainian women are impossible to understand. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve had to hit up google to find out whether my girlfriend’s attitude is “normal” in her country or if she’s just being a psychopath. One of my problems was her often-irrational jealousy. It felt like I couldn’t even glance at another women without my girlfriend taking offense. Was it me, or was it her upbringing?

Ukrainian womenWell, men, if you’ve ever been in this situation with me – the answer is that it really is her upbringing. If you do a little research, you’ll discover that gender roles in the Ukraine are quite different from most Western countries.

For example, family structure is much more traditional. Men are expected to work hard and bring home the bacon while the women tend house and take care of the kids. So if your Ukrainian lady sees your eye wandering, she’s probably worrying not only about losing you, but losing her financial security, too. Getting her own job would be a radical idea – your Ukrainian girlfriend is depending on you, as the man, to protect and provide for her. If you dump her, what will she do? That’s why she doesn’t like your female co-workers or “friends who are girls.” Other women are threats to her entire way of life.

Ukrainian women are also from a culture that takes great pride in femininity and personal grooming. It’s not uncommon for Ukrainian women to be in direct competition with each other in terms of beauty and style (and to catch a good husband, as outlined above). If you’re looking at another woman, you can consider it a direct blow to your girlfriend’s ego. What has she done wrong? Why aren’t you looking at her instead? Aren’t you still attracted to her?

So as you can see, most jealousy issues are simple misunderstandings or culture clashes. A little advice, fellas: even if you know you aren’t a cheater, try to keep your eyes to yourself. It’ll save you and your Ukrainian sweetheart a lot of trouble.

Meet Ukrainian Women Of The New Generation

Ukrainian women Meeting women from Ukraine is more popular than ever because of the widespread use of the Internet and the common knowledge that Ukrainian women are some of the finest women in the world. In the past, a lot of men with careers of their own looked to Ukraine as a great place to find a woman who would make an excellent housewife with very little ambition for a career of their own.

However, the new generation of Ukrainian women have been raised in a culture that is significantly different from their ancestors, and this has led them to want more for themselves in terms of a career, their own fun, and a fuller life that extends past the home. These women are still beautiful and sweet as ever, but just want a little more for themselves than the Ukrainian women of previous generations. Here we’re going to take a look at the similarities and differences of this current generation of Ukrainian women to past generations, and what that means when you’re meeting women from Ukraine now.

The Ukrainian culture has always placed emphasis on a number of important characteristics that men really like to see in women. Some of those characteristics include being a good homemaker, being very sweet and respectful, and placing great value in children and family. These are principles that are passed down from generation to generation because they are a very central part of the culture of the region and has been so for centuries.


While the past generations of Ukrainian women have been primarily known for being particularly sweet and feminine, with very little personal ambition outside of maintaining the family as a unit, the new generation of Ukrainian women want more for themselves as well. In my opinion, this isn’t really a bad thing.

If your woman is out getting some money to help provide for the family unit, then that just means your family will be able to save more and live more comfortably without having to feel the pains of economic problems. Because they want more for themselves, which stems from an increased self-esteem and self-worth among other things, this could easily lead to exciting improvements in other areas, like the bedroom activities! Who wants a super shy woman with low self-esteem in that department, right?

My Hard Opinion About The Label “Ukrainian Mail Order Brides”

Dear friends,

In the Ukraine there are often few options for marriage, and women are pushed hard to marry as early as possible. By the time we women are between 20-25 we are considered too old for marriage, and finding a husband becomes very important. I know many Ukrainian women begin to post their ads as young as 17 or 18, hoping to find a loving husband.

The label “Ukrainian Mail Order Brides” in my opinion is negative. It is a commercial label that is used to portray us in a negative light such as a gold digger, uneducated or desperate. Many who hear the label “Ukrainian Mail Order Brides” assume we are simply searching for someone to provide us with green cards and this is simply not true. While marrying a man from abroad does help us to become citizens, this is seldom the primary reason Ukrainian women seek a foreign husband.

Like any woman, unmarried women from the Ukraine are seeking a husband who will love and cherish them. I know that this often does include finding a husband who can provide security and a safe home but that doesn’t mean that we’re all after only the richest men possible. By using that negative label it makes it harder for those of us from the Ukraine to find a suitable husband who will be devoted to both being loving and to having a family.

In my opinion, finding love abroad is already hard as I do not have as many opportunities to meet eligible men, so posting an ad to find one is my only real option. The Ukrainian mail order brides label automatically increases how difficult it can be to find a husband who will take the ad seriously.

Many assume that because of the negative association with that label that Ukrainian women are uneducated, which is not true. I know that many women from the Ukraine are well educated and may have careers of their own prior to meeting their future husband.

Ukraine mail order brides vs Ukrainian women

Dear friends,

As a smart, beautiful, interesting Ukrainian woman, I get completely offended when I am referred to as a “mail order bride.” This term makes me think of something that can be purchased off the Internet such as plumbing supplies or toys.

Ukrainian women like me, who have joined dating sites, are not a commercial product. We are women with hearts and with feelings, who are looking to share our thoughts and feelings with men. I realize that the majority of men do not understand how women think.

Understanding how Ukrainian women think is even more difficult for men. That is why I thought I would share a few tips on how to win the hearts of Ukrainian women with you men.

It is very important that you realize that we are much more than our pictures. While we are all beautiful, striking women, the majority of us have been college educated at a major European University. While we are both intelligent and beautiful, please keep in mind that we are looking for men that will treat us well and that have excellent family values.


Write us letters that ask about our interests and our backgrounds. Please don’t assume that just because we are currently corresponding that we will marry. We want men that care about what we think and feel. Professing your love for us and your intention to marry us early on in the letter writing process makes us feel as if we are a commodity.


Take the time to get to know us. Find out what makes us laugh and what makes us cry. Get us to open up to you about our hopes and dreams. In turn, share the same items with us. We want to get to know you for whom you are. We honestly care about your feelings and hopes and dreams. We are people, not robots. Sharing with each other will bring us closer to one another.


By remembering to treat us as real women and by refraining from referring to us as “mail order brides,” you will be showing that you respect us as inviduals and personalities.

Ukrainian Women Who Live Abroad – Who Are They?

When I first came to Germany from the Ukraine in order to study at a university, I was pretty lonely. It was an exciting time because I was learning so much about the world and myself, but I really wanted somebody to love and care for. I joined a dating site that promised to match single Ukrainian women with Western men.


Ukrainian womenA lot of the guys I dated when I first came to the west expected me to be a really traditional girl. Although I come from a very traditional and conservative family, I am not really like that myself. I wear jeans and I have opinions  I love some parts of western culture, like music and movies. In a lot of ways I am like a typical Western girl.


One of the ways that I feel different from other Western women is that I really respect my husband. I have noticed that a lot of my western girlfriends spend a lot of time whining about the flaws of their boyfriends and husbands. That is one way that I am not really like most western women. I would not want my husband to complain about me to his friends, so I never complain about him to my friends. I also never try not to nag him or change him. I figure, why would I want to change the man who I promised to love forever? Most of the girls from the Ukraine who live abroad now feel the same way about the complaining and the nagging. This is one part of western culture that we really do not understand.


I really do love my partner. He takes care of me and always kills spiders for me, which is great. I am absolutely terrified of spiders. My honey treats me like the independent person I am, but still knows I like to feel protected.


I am not trying to say that I am perfect. I am sure that I probably annoy my husband from time to time. But I know that we love each other, and I am so glad I was willing to take a chance with a dating site. I have quite a few friends who are still looking or a husband or partner, and I have been recommending that they sign up for a dating site. If you are looking for a girlfriend and you sign up too, you just might meet one of my friends.

Guest Post : Look or not to look for a Ukrainian woman?

A guest post by Michael P., a friend of mine.
He is German and is looking for a perfect woman for life:

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It is so hard to meet women and make a real connection these days, isn’t it? If you’re like me, you’ve tried everything: bars, church, internet dating, even dialing random numbers and trying to strike up a conversation with a (hopefully) single woman on the other end of the line.
Hey, it’s worth a shot, right? It’s hit or miss with Western (German in particular) women though, and I’m tired of all the games.

I was surfing the net the other day and came across a Ukrainian/Russian dating site. It got me thinking. Some people, mostly Western men like my buddies, say that these women are just looking for money and I shouldn’t bother. But what if they are wrong? Are these women really that different than someone who uses a dating site? I’m so tired of being single and alone, and really ready to meet someone special, so I decided to look into it a little more.

In my opinion, the majority of these women are looking for the same thing I am: love. They want families and happiness just like I do. I haven’t been to the Ukraine, but I’m guessing that these women want more for themselves than they can get in their home country. Maybe they want careers and someone who can treat them well. And maybe they are having as much trouble meeting Mr. Right in their country as I am meeting the future Mrs. Right in my country.

Finding the right Ukrainian woman for marriage looks really easy, too. You just plug in what you are looking for. Age, height, weight, etc. You can even specify hair and eye color. I was really surprised by how easy it was to find what I was looking for. This might be the answer to my dating troubles.

What Do Ukrainian Girls Really Want?

Many Ukrainian women are looking for husbands abroad, but many of those men do not know exactly what the women are looking for. This can lead to poor communication or vast misunderstandings. In my opinion, there are only a few things that Ukrainian girls are actually looking for when they look for these husbands. If you want to meet your wife in this way and have a fulfilling relationship, you should know what the girls are ukrainian girl datinglooking for before you begin to contact them.


First off, Ukrainian women really want to find stability. They want to meet a man who they can trust to be with them for a long time. They do not want to waste their time with a man who may be interested today but may not be tomorrow. The process of moving out of Ukrainian is a long one. It is obvious to me that they do not want to do this unless they know they are moving to a stable relationship.


Next, I’ve seen that Ukrainian girls want men who are serious about their lives. They want men who are driven to success, who take their work seriously — but who also take their families seriously. These women want men who are going to be able to provide for them and give them a warm, loving home. While someone who likes to go out and party might be fun for the night, this is not the kind of man a Ukrainian woman wants to marry.


Finally, Ukrainian girls want men who are interested in them. They want men who are interested in learning about their unique backgrounds, about the things that they love and the things they have a passion for. This will make the relationship strong. Ukrainian girls want men who will love them and care about them as women.

Ukrainian Wives Are Not Just Stay At Home Wife (a Guest Post)

It’s something of a cliché, right: America is a land of opportunity, but it really is; especially when you compare my like in the United States with my life back in Kharkov, a city in eastern Ukraine.


Here, I have a very fulfilling career as a court interpreter. In Ukraine I would have never been able to do that, after all, no one needs someone who speaks Ukrainian and Russian. Everyone there also speaks Ukrainian and Russian. Here however, my linguistic capabilities, which mind you I never really thought of as marketable skills, came in very handy. After seeing an ad online, I applied. All I needed to do was to pass a few tests showing that I was competent in Russian, Ukrainian, and English, and I was good to go.


The best part of my job, is that I’m still able to be home early enough that our children don’t come home to an empty house. They, and my husband, get to have a home cooked meal every day. Truly, I get the best of both worlds. In Ukraine I’d likely have to choose between having a career or being a full-time mother.


I have some other friends who work in different fields, but nonetheless find them just as satisfying. They include careers in retail, as medical assistants, office managers, and even one who teaches literature at the local community college. They needed someone who knew Russian literature and she just happened to fit the bill.


Life in the United States is fantastic. That’s not too say that I don’t miss my homeland and my native culture, but there are plenty of ways in which I maintain that cultural link, even though I live in America. I’m very active in the local Orthodox Church. It’s a great way to make friends who are of a similar background and it ensures that my kids have an idea of where it is that their maternal ancestors came from.


My life was vastly improved by marrying a man from the West and I could not imagine having the opportunities that I have here if I had stayed in Ukraine.

Russian Ukrainian Women & Thai Women – Very Different?

Dear friends,

Many Western men might wonder whether Russian and Ukrainian women are like Thai women, but, as a Ukrainian woman, I know that there are some big differences!

There is no doubt that family values of the both cultures might be similiar… While we might all seem to be exotic, one of the most attractive traits about Ukrainian and Russian women is our devotion to our families. When we get married, our husbands and children become our top priority. Family values are the key to understanding Ukrainian and Thai culture. Family is extremely important and many old traditions are still very much a part of family life today.

But what is the difference between Russian / Ukrainian and Thai women?

According to my online research, the dating culture of Thai women has always been a modest one despite popular rhetoric. Cross-cultural marriages between Caucasian and Thai women have only recently become commonplace fixtures in Thai communities. Women are demure, while searching for a man of quality to become a part of her life. Treating a partner with undeniable respect, these women are rewarded with true commitment.

Russian / Ukrainian women vs Thai women

1.) Career and finances

In my experience, Ukrainian and Russian woman also very hardworking. Even if we have no experience in working in an office, for example, we are happy to help our husbands in their businesses if that is what they need.

15-20 years ago, Ukrainian and Russian women married very early (18-23 years were considered the best years of marrying). But nowadays, Ukrainians and Russian, like most Europeans, marry later. This is due to the fact that modern men and women want first to study and acquire a profession in order to become financially independent and able to support a family.

A Thai girl works to please her partner in every way a woman should. The more she is with her partner the greater the partners caretaker role becomes due to her economic dependency. In the Thai culture, her home life is her primary concern. Therefore, she is not expected to search for outside employment, unless it is the wish of her partner.

This is specific to finances. Thai women do not have access to opportunities offered to women in the “Western World” or do not have the inclination to pursue a career outside of the home.

It is clear to these very smart women that if they wish to continue to live comfortably they must find a partner with the financial means to care for them, before moving beyond their early twenties.

2.) Care taking is expected?

In Thailand, men expect to provide for their women. If, a woman works. She may have a small business. If, not a man might desire her company rather than having her out in the work force.

This is a personal decision. In the latter case, she is given a daily or monthly stipend or salary, known in Thai as an “ngen duan”. Caring for the woman is a strong part of the Thai culture. It is expected; a man marrying into a Thai family cares for his spouse. The active participation in family activities is expected. Social events are very important in the Thai family. The union is not only to the woman but also to the family.

In the initial process of asking for the woman’s hand, a man makes a solemn promise to take care of the woman. Thai women are cared for by their parents and trained to give great attention to their partners. They are quite beautiful and unaccustomed to the world of finance, which is required to pay mortgages, buy food and maintain a lifestyle.

The same expectations might be found in Russia and Ukraine. Men expect to provide for their Russian and Ukrainian women and expect to be a head of the family.

2.) Issue of sexuality

Another difference between Russian and Ukrainian women and women from Thailand is our sexuality.

People around the world regard Thailand as a visiting point for sexual pleasures. However, the actual culture of sexuality is modest. Thai women are quite chaste and stay with one partner. The subject is not open for dinner conversation.

Women are expected to remain untouched, sexually, for respectability. The same level of modesty appreciated in other parts of the world is no less expected, in Thailand. A woman of lose morals is frowned upon in Thailand and loses her position as a respectable woman.

However, Western influences have opened the option of cohabitation before marriage in the younger generation of Thai residents.

What about Russian and Ukrainian women’s sexuality?

Thus, the Ukrainian and Russian woman’s attitude towards sex, hugs and kisses differs from the Western woman’s attitude.You should know that our culture is rather conservative (the women are shy and do not kiss at the first date usually).

Many readers write me that Ukrainian and Russian ladies are very shy, cannot or do not want to hug or kiss Western men, and it is really difficult sometimes to find out whether the woman is into you or not.

Polygamy is common and we learn to get used to and love it early on in dating. I know this may be a shocker for some of you men in the western world with our culture being so different.

As you can see, Russian / Ukrainian and Thai women have something in common. On the other hand, there are very many cultural differencies. In my view, it is really hard to compare these both nationalities. Cultural differencies would dominate and we are really different.

What are your thoughts on this issue? Any experiences with dating Russian / Ukrainian and Thai women to share here?

Feel free to comment this interview if you have any questions or additions to it.